If I had a church resume, you'd probably picture at sixty-four year old woman.
My husband and I attend a wonderful, little church outside of town. And even though when we were "church shopping" we wanted to go somewhere with people our age, after going to about five or six different churches, we settled on Beaverdam Mennonite Church. We liked the mix of contemporary worship with traditional, the congregation was so welcoming and the teaching was stellar. As we sat near the back of the sanctuary however, a majority of the heads we saw seemed to be middle aged and gray; that didn't deter us from continuing to attend.
On the third or fourth Sunday we were there, a man, in a very vibrant, Cosby-like sweater asked to take our picture. (As you walk into the church, there is a mural of a tree and with all the pictures of people who attend, each photo taped onto a colorful, paper leaf.) I thought that it was a bit early to commit to this church by agreeing to have our photo on the wall, but we went with it anyways. Almost two years later, we are still there.
It can be hard finding ways to get involved at a new church or it can be a little too easy... After a couple months of attending, I was asked if I would help with vacation Bible school. After I agreed, I turned to my husband, "I guess we are locked in for the next two years."
My husband was asked to be part of an outreach group a month later. We weren't going anywhere.
For the first potluck we attended, I was complimented for my homemade dinner rolls. I volunteered with the annual gifts sale and helped decorate the church for Christmas. By Christmas, I felt like a part of a family.
Around early January, one of the ladies I had gotten to know, found out she had cancer. I wanted to do something for her and decided I would crochet her a prayer shawl. My mother-in-law had made a few and I thought it would be appreciated by my new friend. I picked a shawl pattern I had already done before and started crocheting it on a road trip that my husband and I were going on. As we returned home from our trip, I wanted to drop off the finished shawl at my friend's house. She didn't have a doorbell, so after some knocking with no answer, I left it on her doorstep. I called her when we got home to let her know it was there and she said, "Oh no! We were here! Oh, and I see your little footprints in the snow. I'll go get it now. Thank you!"
At the same time, I took over her position as "Visual Arts Coordinator" (which is a fancy term for the flower lady) something she had done the previous fifteen years at the church and wanted a break from. My friend also decided that she should start a Prayer Shawl ministry because of how blessed she was to get her prayer shawl from me. One dilemma with that was, my friend didn't know how to knit or crochet, so I started meeting with ladies to teach them how to crochet.
A few months later, I was asked if I would be interested in helping with the primary aged Sunday school class. Now, I help teach the class.
I am the flower lady, I help with VBS, I crochet Tuesday nights with the prayer shawl ministry, I teach Sunday school-- I skipped childbearing and went straight to menopause.
There's a sewing group at our church, too and we meet once a month to sew quilts. The average age is probably seventy and then there's me, a twenty-something, sewing quilt blocks together, wearing Chuck Taylors, listening to ladies talk about hot flashes and canning green beans. I love it.
There is no other place I'd rather be then at this church.
Here is a another prayer shawl I just finished last night. I hope that the recipient feels loved when she wears it.
It's pretty funny that my husband and I attend a Mennonite church now. A few years ago, when he was working on an organic dairy farm in New York, he had the opportunity to visit a dairy farm run by a Mennonite family. When he came back home, my husband said, "Let's be Mennonite!"
Be careful what you wish for... <3